Ho'oponopono Training IV Children
Our Children are our Future... T.Pomaikai Mocna
Ho'oponopono VI
Healing Relationship with Children
How to create healthy relationships with children? In our culture exist the assumption, that after people become parents, they will spontniously know how be loving parents. That Love will be the best guide. It works well - for prople who have been rised in loving families. They breathed Love evey day from simple life situations like making breatkfast together, painting walls or doing the homework with gentle support and understanding of parents.
But how children, who have been biten, shouted and abused would know what means love? They know they miss something very important from early childhood. They know what they did not want to experience.. .But it does not mean, they nesesarily know how to express love, they never got. It is the naive idea, that such sources like media, movies and other people examles will be enough. Sometimes jung parents are stuck in behavioral patterns, which they experienced from own parents, knowing that such patterns are not healthy.
Expessing love to children is not the same to feeling love to them. Many people say, they love own children, when in fact they don't contact them, don't listen to them or express love though critic. How the child can feel such love?
Often partens don't realize that children grows and parental love need to change it's form of expression. Having 40 years old son, is not the same as having 4 years old son. Many mothers forgett it.
Having adult child means learning new ways of being the parent... And for many parents such change is too big...
Workshop "Ho'oponopono IV - Healing Relationships with Chidren"
include:
- Leaning to update our relationship with Children
- Understanding new role of a Parent
- Understanding who is the Child - in Hawaiian traditions
- Healing relationship with Small Children
- Healing Relationship with Adult Children
Aloha
Article "Ho'oponoponopono IV - Healing Relationship with Children", author: Teresa Mocna, copyrights © 2011
